Dating a girl with a lot of guy friends 121chat
To me, it's a red flag as the above poster mentioned and I when I have found this out about a girl, I never take anything she says or does seriously. In the odd chance that the girl who doesnt get along with other girls ISNT the instigator of drama, she is still a party to it. If they are guy friends that she regularly calls and hangs out with and are close and she doesn't hang out with females, red flag.
Drama doesn't come into your life if you don't let it.. I would also look at this girl's definition of "friends" OP. Low self-esteem girl who needs constant validation. Loyalty is number one in my book when it comes to a relationship.
You can go on and on about what she means for feminism and the visual significance of her sparkly bejeweled onesies, but she will always be "that chick from Destiny's Child." Save your gushing for your girlfriends who appreciate it. You can try throwing out TV show references but they will not get them.
Obviously, there are exceptions to every single thing on this list, but by and large, my guy friends do not watch the same awesome TV I do and most of our conversations circle back to some "guy with guns kills a lot of people for no reason" TV show I could not care less about (partly because it has zero women in it who aren't dying all over the place, but that's a whole other thing). Going to bars with them and having people assume they're your boyfriend even though he never touches you.
Idk if she was ****ing any of these other dudes on the side or not. Also lol @ "we all know guys are only friends with girls because theyre trying to get some" You sound like a total loser bro. right, because no other woman has ever liked anime or gaming or sports or lifting ever.
Lots of guys I know have close female friends that they have no interest in. The drama is usually caused by the girl who "doesn't get along with other girls." She usually cannot stand to not be the center of attention, so she insists on flirting with the other girls' boyfriends / love interests / etc.
) ::::::::::::::::::::: The Mirin' (180lbs) ^Target: June 1st Not saying this is always the case, but in my PERSONAL experience, girls who have lots of guy friends because they "prefer to" and "don't get along with other females" are huge liars/sloots in general. All those dudes just wanted to **** her and would constantly blow up phone and ****.
If she keeps ex-boyfriends and clearly interested guys around her, she's doing it for attention and likely has a lot of issues that will translate into a bad relationship (Manipulative, selfish, low empathy etc.) If her guy friends are doing things like paying for her stuff, posting kitten pics on her wall and taking her on days out to the zoo and chit, run. When you're preeeetty sure one of your guy friends likes you and you don't feel the same way. Realizing you talk to them more than you talk to your boyfriend and feeling weird about that.Please, for the love of god, never confess your feelings and if you do, please, do not do it on my wedding day or some shit, Sam. This wouldn't be weird if they were female friends, but somehow, since they're guys, it feels like cheating (even though you aren't attracted to a single one of these beautiful weirdos). They will never fully understand Beyoncé and you know this.I even caught her lying to these other dudes when she was with me.WOuld just text like "nah i'm staying in tonight, i'm tired" or some **** when in reality my dick was inside her at some point that night.