Do you think its worth mentioning to him that he was too selfish?He told me he was a few times and when he said it I always told him I don’t do well with selfish.Pay attention to a person’s actions, not his words.He said he wants to find “the one to spend the rest of his life with”, but that doesn’t mean that he’ll be the kind of partner any woman would want to spend the rest of her life with!They may even tell you it is a waste of time and money.
Maybe you need to assess how you show up in your relationship, and whether you are looking out for yourself enough.They see themselves as loving, wonderful people – and in some ways they probably are.But they can’t really see beyond their own needs, wants, and desires, even when it comes to what is best for those they love.Selfish people are more relaxed when it comes to a relationship. They are with you because of what you do for them, your status and accomplishment. Without the things you do, they wouldn’t be with you. Being self-centered, they always talk about them and not you. So you may hardly hear them say, “we need to achieve this together” or “let us plan our future together.”The most you will hear is I want this, can you help me with that, etc. Your selfish partner may be a hindrance to your success and breakthrough.They don’t want to see you achieve more than they have been it educational, career or status.